You Are As Free As Your Options

Imagine, for just ten fleeting seconds, that you are in a prison cell. A stark, grey, limiting enclosure that permits only a handful of activities. Picture the barren walls, the sense of confinement, and the stifling limitation of your choices (Food, Activities, Friends…etc.). Does it feel free? Probably not. You would likely feel as if your wings were clipped, freedom cruelly yanked away, and your personal liberty redefined in terms of your limited options.

Now, jolt back into reality. Your life isn’t confined within four walls. There are no bars on your windows, but let’s say you feel “Limited” and constrained by what you can do. Do you feel utterly free? Does that feel a bit like living in a virtual prison cell?

As we travel through the landscape of our life, especially during the bad times in our lives, we start questioning the true extent of our freedom.

Renowned self-help author Brian Tracy once said, “You are as free as your options.” Now, this statement may seem a little confusing at first glance. After all, aren’t we all ‘free’ in our respective lives? Yet, Tracy’s profound statement encourages us to ponder over the quality of our freedom and the extent of our options.

To understand this, consider the skills you’ve acquired, the languages you can speak, the activities you can perform, and the hobbies you’ve nurtured. Each one of these elements represents an option, a door leading to potential opportunities. Each language you speak opens up conversations with new people; each skill allows you to explore different career paths, and every hobby has the potential to blossom into a profitable venture.

And the more of these options you have, the more freedom you possess. For you are not chained by circumstances or restricted by lack of choices, you have an array of paths to traverse, an ocean of possibilities to explore.

So, what does this mean for you, dear reader?

Firstly, never underestimate the power of a hobby. Do you love painting? Can you strum a tune on your guitar? Are you passionate about blogging? Every hobby holds within it the seed of a potential side job. Moreover, it provides a break from your routine, a chance to explore something you truly love, and an opportunity to create and contribute.

Secondly, never stop learning. Just as a river that doesn’t flow becomes stagnant, a mind that doesn’t learn becomes stagnant too. Stay curious. Read books. Take online courses. Learn a new language. Each new skill, every nugget of knowledge, expands your options and, therefore, your freedom.

Lastly, build connections. Meet people. Network. Share ideas. Collaborate. The more people you connect with, the broader your worldview becomes. Each connection is a potential opportunity waiting to be explored.

Meet Rola, a dedicated accountant with a reputed firm, meticulously analyzing columns of numbers from dawn till dusk. Despite her career’s financial stability, Rola felt increasingly confined, her life a constant loop of figures and balance sheets. Yet, there was a silver lining – her passion for baking. Within the cozy confines of her apartment kitchen, amidst the aroma of fresh bake, she discovered an escape, a world where she felt liberated and free.

One day, a moment of realization dawned upon Rola. She recognized her culinary hobby as a form of escapism and a viable opportunity waiting to be harnessed. Inspired, she honed her baking skills, shared her creations with friends, and gradually transformed her passion into a small business. Breaking away from her accounting job, Rola seized control of her own hours, clients, and career path, ultimately finding her true freedom in the swirl of cream and the crunch of a cookie. Rola’s journey serves as a reminder that our passions often hold the key to options and freedoms we might not initially recognize.

Remember, freedom is not a static state. It’s dynamic, it’s growing, and it’s within your grasp. Every skill you acquire, every connection you make, and every hobby you nurture brings you one step closer to becoming a freer, more versatile version of yourself.

As Brian Tracy puts it, you are indeed as free as your options. So, seize every opportunity, harness every option, and explore every potential. That’s the way to live a life of boundless freedom.

Have a Wonderful Week!

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5 Things to remember when Preparing for your next job interview

No Matter if this was your first job after graduation or you are a seasoned professional who is planning their next move. Job interviews are always tricky and they are not easy most of the time, and preparing for them – if done properly- demand a lot of energy (mentally, and psychologically).

This week’s tip can be useful for any week, and in any year; at the end of each year, I do the exercise of reviewing my profile as if there’s a big opportunity lined up for me, the exercise itself is very valuable. You really don’t need to have an interview to do it, you just need to have an on-going interest in growing yourself and your potential.

Of course, there are many books on the topic, and the below list is not exhaustive and is not meant to cover every single aspect of Job interviews, but at least here are 5 things to remember when you are preparing for your next job interview (or just do that periodically like myself).

1. Customize your CV for the Job

There’s no one CV that fits every position no matter how diverse your background is, your CV must shout one profile, or at least one direction; and it has to be the direction and profile that matches the job.

Get the habit of making multiple versions of your resume, 2 to 3, first because you never know when the opportunity presents itself, so being prepared to quickly adjust your resume is far more important than just attach the same version of your resume you used last year… (If you think there isn’t anything to add or change in your resume in over a year… You have a Bigger problem than you think.)

Craft your resume according to the job position you are applying to, use the proper keywords, and add the relevant experience and information and trim the points that are great but not very relevant.

Make it as personal as possible, you don’t want to show the interviewer that you are using the same exact resume and cover letter to 20 other recruiters and that you spend the least time working on your CV, hence your interest in their company is not that High.

I normally use the naming convention of Samer Chidiac’s Profile 2019 (<Job title >, May Refresh) in the name of the file, and in the Footer of the resume, I add (MAY 2019 UPDATE) <JOB TITLE> – Candidate | Samer Chidiac .

If you think there isn’t anything to add or change in your resume in over a year… You have a Bigger problem than you think.

Samer Chidiac

2. Prepare and Practice for common questions

Every interview is different, some can be very straight forward, and some can take the most interesting forms (like a dinner invitation or so); The first rule here, NEVER UNDERESTIMATE ANY FORM… And just because you got invited to lunch or dinner doesn’t make it less formal and that you should relax…

Despite how different the interview can be, there are some common questions that the interviewer can immediately take a solid impression on who you are, and to begin with a simple one: “Tell me a little bit about yourself”

I can’t stress enough, on the importance of this particular question, it may sound like an ice breaker, but in reality, it’s the abstract of your entire interview, and probably the single most important part.

To answer this question, you just need proper preparation, (it sounds silly, but trust me, you have no idea how many candidates oversimplify this and just start speaking random things about them in a poor flow, or they simply repeat their CV.

You need to properly write down a solid introduction about you, starting from a glimpse of who you are, what does your profile project, your experience (in a nutshell), your education, and state a paragraph of a particular interest with the role you are applying for, and finally end it with who you are after work.

It will be a few minutes, but this will lay the foundation to the interviewer that you are sharp, know who you are, know what you want and structured. (and that’s very helpful)

Another question that you need to prepare for, even if it wasn’t specifically asked in the interview: “Why are you the best candidate for this job?”

Think about the answer to his question as your bullet points for your entire interview… The more points you include there would be giving you more chances in other questions… (Try to keep it from 3 to 5 points only)

Finally on this one, you need to PRACTICE & REHEARSE! I write down my answers on Microsoft OneNote (mostly handwritten via tablet), and then I rehearse myself talking them out to the interviewer… I can literally repeat the process of speaking out loud the answers like 5-6 times, and before the interview, I normally spend time in a cafe nearby (an hour earlier) and review my notes and what I have prepared and have a final rehearsal.

3. Review and adjust your strong & weak points

There are no perfect candidates, those who were born to do this job and been practicing this all their lives… Trust me that can only be found in movies (and mostly about assassins…); and if you insist that you are simply the perfect candidate, one can argue that if the job role or function changed in the future, you may suddenly become obsolete.

So, in general, your strength and weakness are important to highlight, however, when you are preparing for that list, just remember that the points that are not directly relevant to the job description are not important to state here… (How many hot dog you can eat or how much you can hold your breath underwater may not be very relevant strong points..)

If you do the exercise properly, this exercise would be very helpful *Check-point* for you, to see where you need to improve and which strength are under-valuated. And remember, the group of regular points can produce an immense strong point, per example, you may be a lawyer who studied programming/coding and who loves cars, and you finally could end up writing legislation for Autonomous driving for a Government.

Finally on this subject, when you are preparing your weak spots, buckle them with learning and keep them relevant; you may have had an office job for the past 10 years and the role you are applying requires different types of commitments (like traveling a lot), you will need to highlight how (while you had a desk job, you were doing extra-activities like volunteering, that gave you the opportunity to exercise more than just a desk job.)

Always remember, that you don’t need to hide what the interviewer can easily spot from your resume… If it’s a weakness, they will ask you – directly or indirectly – on it, and you need to acknowledge it and match it with learning… (I don’t have a diploma in this field, but I studied online and took extra courses / read books about the topic, and I’m planning to continue in this… etc)

4. Identify & Highlight your added value

Best candidates are judged based on the value they will be bringing to the role and to the organization; you may have an exceptional past performance, but it might not be as relevant as you may think towards the future of the company, so you need to show how you can add value to the role you are applying for by mapping your strengths to the company and to the role, and have a clear value proposition.

After all, when you are hired and challenges are faced, you can talk as much as you want about your past victories and successes, but they can mean nothing if you can’t leverage them and apply them to the current situation.

Remember: Your Past performance is very important but not nearly as important as your future one.

5. Match your path with the role you are applying for

One of the other common questions in an interview that you need to prepare for (re-check step#2), is “Why are you applying for this job?”, and it includes 3 elements that you will be answering, Your Past, Your Present and Your Future.

Your Past: Your experience is relevant, you have passion for that.

Your Present: Your current position allowed you to learn this and that, and now it’s time to move to the next step.

Your Future: Your ambition and passion making you look to a future where you can make an impact in _______ and that’s why you have chosen this line of business (or want to change into), and if given the opportunity, this job will be a very important step in that future.

Saying stuff like “It’s my dream to work in _____ ” is nice (but lame as well), but let’s say if you were given the opportunity to work in a much bigger organization, you would still consider it, so it’s better to state that your plan/path, is to create an impact in the _____ field and you are exploring opportunities within entities that share the same values and ambitions as you and that it would be a Win-Win for both.

Have a wonderful week and may you find success in your next interview.

Cheers,
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Samer Chidiac is a Strategic Innovation Advisor, a Business Psychologist, a Philanthropist, an Author and a Speaker. 

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